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It's about ensuring those calls are beneficial and enjoyable for both parties.

· Expectations: Open dialogue is key when it comes to expectations. Learn how to be an effective gay dom. But this control doesn't mean you just become a dictator. Please consider making a one time or monthly donation to help support our staff.

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· Restraints: Harnesses and restraints aren't just about control - they're about trust and intimacy. This could be his inlet, his way into queerness, his version of same-sex attraction.”

And if you were to decide you are some kind of gay or some kind of bi or a whole lot of heteroflexible, ALPHA, you wouldn’t be the first Dom top who liked feminine gay men but had zero interest in dick.

If he doesn’t feel the need to do that or thinks doing so would be disingenuous—indeed, if he must be straight for this kink to work—then he’s straight. “Many queer men do the same—talk and tease with no intention of meeting—and for similar reasons. The guys he is messaging are chatting with him consensually, so I don’t see any consent violations.”

Now if you were uploading or sharing the video clips these guys make for you without their knowledge, ALPHA, that would be a very serious consent violation.

Also, a "no" means full stop.

· Communication: If consent is the skeleton, communication is the lifeblood of your relationship. Open, honest communication is key. And since some trans men are gay and since some trans gay men are femme and since some trans men are subs and since not all trans men—gay or otherwise—get bottom surgery, ALPHA, that means there are lots of gay men out there without dicks for you to choose from.

“But unless he calls himself gay, he’s not gay,” said Cheves.

“Shame, stigma, and prejudice have their place in many fetishes. It's important to communicate openly about your kinks. Sexual withholding—denying and being denied sex—is part of many fetishes and is really hot.