Lesbian guy

He loved music, travel and books. I couldn't eat or sleep, haunted by the thoughts going through my mind.

That’s precisely what happened to one poor, unfortunate soul who decided to f around and find out on TikTok recently.

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“Absolutely f*cking not,” said sapphic TikToker @ry.loves.bokchoy in her own response video.

As I got older and started figuring myself out more, I realized I could be a boy, I could be a trans man. “I love women, and I absolutely cannot f*cking stand men.”

Preach! I even started wearing makeup again and pretty clothes that made me feel like a girl playing dress-up. There’s a reason why this time-honored dynamic has formed the emotional crux of some of the best (and queerest) TV shows of all time, from The Golden Girls to Difficult People to The Other Two.

We didn't have to conform to anyone's ideas of what life should be. But when they drag gay culture into it, that’s when trouble starts a-brewing.

It has no known meanings.^[19]

An alternate version of the Lesboy flag by beyond-mogai-pride-flags was made by Tumblr user isobug on June 13, 2024. They have no known meanings.^[16]

A male lesbian flag was made by by deactivated Tumblr user hikus-pride-flags on November 4th, 2021. Which is a bit of a twist and a bit of a tweak.

Now that I was single, I could do whatever I damn well pleased.

The bottom line? While scholars cannot pinpoint an exact date, there are many surviving testimonies from lesbian men, particularly those who are ftm or transmasculine in some way. The idea of being both a lesbian and a man emerged around the same time as the term 'butch'. I wondered if life was worth living.

I wanted a five o'clock shadow to graze my face. It also helps that I’m a system, and saying this about myself helps my alters feel validated about their identities rather than dysphoric." -Azure

Term

The term exists at least since before 2011.^[8] More commonly found in Indonesian and Tagalog^[9] (and possibly other languages in the Philippines),^[10] the term was also used, more rarely, among other cultures or places,^[11] such as in Latin American countries,^[12] before 2020s, where the flag was created and the definition was made more concise or ample.^[13]

Flags

A Lesboy flag may have been created by Tumblr blog beyond-mogai-pride-flags December 20th, 2020.

I wanted to be with a man in bed. My genderfluidity consists of nonbinary femininity on one end of the spectrum, transmasculinity on the other, androgyne/intergender on the leaning sides, and agender/neutrois square in the middle. Although this time, it wasn't for a divorce honeymoon but to marry this man – surrounded by our friends.

The next year, we took our love for travel to a new level: We left our jobs to live without a home, staying with friends and housesitting all over the world.

“I had a male friend that asked me out,” she said.